I was cleaning out my email inbox tonight and found that I had a note to myself in there about some blog posts that I needed to write. I felt good that I had actually managed to write most of them, but there was one that had gotten neglected – Sam’s birthday. I felt even worse when I looked through my post drafts to find that I have an unposted draft of a post about Sam’s *2nd* birthday that never got finished. I think I want these posts to be extra memorable and that task gets too daunting so I don’t get anything done. Oops. So I decided I’d just sit down and quickly write out some thoughts about Sam’s birthday. I’m sorry there’s no pictures. I’m sure we have some somewhere, but if I wait to post this until I find the pictures it will never get posted.. and 6 months is long enough to wait to get a post finished :P
So the thing Sam was most excited about this year for his birthday was the cake. Not the presents or party or anything else… just the cake. It wasn’t even that exciting of a cake. We made cupcakes from a boxed mix and put frosting on those cupcakes. No real cool decorations, or fancy recipe, just good ol’ Betty Crocker cupcakes. But he talked about that cake for weeks on end. He was SO excited about the cake. Perhaps he will not share in his dad’s preference for pie :)
We threw a little birthday party for him. Ok, so maybe it wasn’t as little as I had intended. I started with just a few friends, and his cousin Skylar who he sees pretty regularly. Then I thought that if I was inviting my sister I ought to also invite my brother. Then I decided if I’d invited both of my siblings that were in the area I ought to also invite Eric’s siblings who were in the area, and his parents as well. It was a crazy fun party, with lots of fun kids running around. However I think in the future I might limit his parties to either being friends parties or family parties. I’m more and more liking the rule of thumb that you can invite as many friends as you are years old :)
The best part of Sam’s birthday in my opinion happened the day after all the celebrations and birthday stuff was over. The next morning Sam woke up and asked me “Can we have the day we already had?” While it was hard to break his bubble and let him know that he doesn’t get to have a perpetual birthday, it did make me happy to know that we had succeeded in making it a special day for him :)
I’m starting to re-think my grand plan of going to Costco and Home Depot with my boys today. In the little while that I let the boys play in the car while I was gathering my stuff and wrapping up a couple things Daniel started a life of petty crime as a graffiti artist.
Then while I quickly ran the sharpie into the house he found a pair of scissors and I made it back just in time to stop him from cutting his nice pants to shreds. I didn’t even know we *had* either of those things in the car, let alone where to find them! Guess it’s time to go through my pins on cleaning to see if the link with the hints for getting sharpie out of anything really has ideas that work…
Update: I tried the idea from that link of using sunscreen and it totally worked. There are only a few places where you can somewhat tell there might have been something drawn on, but really it was a miracle cure. I just used Kroger brand spray on sun screen, a little bit of rubbing and a paper towel. Magic!
Eric’s and my curtain rod fell down yesterday and Sam noticed it this morning. I asked him if we should put it back up and the following conversation ensued –
Sam: No, just dad should do it.
Me: Why just dad?
Sam: Because dad does all the work in our family.
Me: Uhm, ok, so what does mom do?
Sam: She just sleeps in bed.
Needless to say he won zero points for this conclusion, especially since it was 11:30am and I had just barely woken up Eric, while I’ve been up trying to mitigate the messes our boys have been making since 7:30am. Which isn’t to say that Eric doesn’t do a lot of work in our family, but I certainly don’t spend my days just sleeping in bed!
Today was Sam’s first day of preschool! So we got the obligatory first-day-of-school-in-front-of-the-front-door pictures –
We could’t convince him to put his hands at his sides or really look right at the camera but this shows better what Sam is really like anyways. We did some quick haircuts before school this morning, which fortunately went much better than last year :P
I do feel like we’re cheating a little bit because his preschool is just at our next door neighbor’s house where he spends a lot of his time anyways. Not exactly the most harrowing first day of school experience. No real anxiety over whether or not he’s going to like his teacher or be comfortable in a new environment – he’s doing exactly what he begs to do all day long! But really I think it’s going to be the perfect thing for him. Sam loves learning and being around other kids, but he does get nervous sometimes about doing new things and going off on his own. I think this will be a great step for him, and more importantly I think it will be a great experience that will build his confidence and love of learning. Not to mention that this preschool is relatively inexpensive and just twice a week so it will give us lots of time to go and do things on our own that we enjoy.
I probably would have considered doing joy school again this year, but all the people I did it with last year have put their kids into different preschool programs. It was a lot of fun, but it sort of disintegrated halfway through the year. It didn’t help that of the 8 moms that were participating 5 were pregnant, 3 of whom were going to have their babies within a day of each other at one point. In January we split off and changed it to being just a once-a-week playgroup and two of the other moms and myself continued to do more of a school program twice a week. I really enjoyed doing joy school with Sam and hopefully next year I can find people who would want to do a similar program with Danny too!
Anyways, Sam is back from preschool now and it sounds like he loved it! They made bags today and apparently he asked his teacher to draw his bouncy ball on it for him. Whatever floats his boat :) He walked in the door and wanted me to read aloud all the papers he brought home – even though they were mostly informational papers for my benefit. We’re excited for a fun year! Thanks Miss Anna for an awesome first day!